Twist Out Cancer: Open me up and look inside.

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This past week I had scare.  I was feverish, fatigued, and convinced that the scar tissue in my neck was changing. As I slowly moved my fingers from one lymph node to the next, I had trouble differentiating between lumps and bumps and scarring.  Beneath the skin lies what was once was a battle field. What used to be filled with cancerous tumors- is now scar tissue, which serves as a reminder of what was and what is.

As time passes my scars change- the ones that I  can see and feel-and the ones that lie beneath. Keeping up with those changes can be daunting.

My encounter this week with fatigue and fever -led me into a tail-spinning panic.

What if the cancer is back?

What if….what if…..what if….

The what if’s were starting to overpower my ability to be present.

I have worked hard to be present.

I decided that I would rather have them open me up and look inside than to be left wondering-what if….

As I coated my belly with barium, and wrapped myself in a caccoon of warm blankets, I breathed in one, two, three, four, five and out- one, two, three, four, five, six.

As I entered the CT scan, overwhelmed with fear, determination, and hope, it became clear that even if cancer has left my body, it has not left my mind.

The following morning I was told that my scans were still clear.

As I breathed a deep sigh of relief, it became all the more evident that this post treatment chapter is a constant balancing act between sickness and health. Like my disease, I now live somewhere in that grey zone.

As I continue to live in the here and now, in between the black and white, in between the sunlight and shadows, I have some decisions to make. Every day I have the choice to either let fear overpower my present or to let determination and hope guide my future.

Every day I have the choice to let myself be defined by the disease or to live in spite of it.

And every day I have the choice to retreat into what was, or to accept what is.

I choose today. I choose now. I choose hope.